I totally don’t. I made this account years ago, and have probably visted 10 times since. But I really wanted to write about something, and couldnt think of anywhere else to post it.. so here it is.
I fucking love it when you can be friends with someone you had sex with.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m totally not a slut. I’ve slept with a very reasonable amount of guys, small even! Now if were talking about just fooling around we get into some bigg- you know what? Not important. What is important is that I am not a slut. So when I say the above statement about being happy about being friends, its not like I’d lose a ton of people. Ok, whatever, the point is, there’s this guy who I had something suuuuuper casual with a while ago. There were no feelings or anything, it was more like a summer fling. We were both getting over people, and I was just nice to have someone around, especially if you guys are both on the same page about what was going on. And we were! Oh god, just freaking perfection. No drama, no tears, just fun! I think I stumbled into a freaking hookup goldmine.. it maybe I’m the goldmine. I mean I literally didn’t have a care in the world about it. But the point of this post is to say how awesome it is to be cool with it. We can talk about it happening without being awkward about it, with still have a great banter… Lesson is guys, don’t be dramatic just for the sake of it. Cause no drama is fucking bliss.